vicky (107489937) wrote:some people in this game don't understand the meaning of respect, i had one girl tell me to give her coins as she was new.. she clearly wasnt as she had spent over 100,000 i politely declined and got called a selfish yadda. the greed in the game is getting way out of hand.

yes tons players like that.. I ran into a few myself.

pfft....nope! begging suck's.

Kivalina (10856855) wrote:

vicky (107489937) wrote:some people in this game don't understand the meaning of respect, i had one girl tell me to give her coins as she was new.. she clearly wasnt as she had spent over 100,000 i politely declined and got called a selfish yadda. the greed in the game is getting way out of hand.

yes tons players like that.. I ran into a few myself.

WOW lol.

My giving, excludes beggars. I found they're never satisfied with what you give them & only want more.
Just my experiences.
I get more pleasure to gift the unsuspected.

Laila (178128522) wrote:I'm not being mean or anything, but is it right to be asked for coins or anything if you don't get to know a person? I just been begged for coins that I have worked hard for by faithfully playing this game and not begging even for 10 yocoins. I'm a giving person in rl but I refuse to give somebody in YW my stuff that I paid for without expecting something back. I have friends in my buddy list I don't associate with why should I give you the satisfaction when you most likely do the same?

No. I don't think it's right. And it's not only happening in game. It happens here... a lot.
I think people that beg for stuff, post sob stories for sympathy which = being gifted, are "looking" for the very specific item listing its theme, color, and how long they've been looking for it, complain how expensive specific items are, complain how expensive YC is and how they can't afford a specific item, want re-releases so as not to pay inflated prices for very specific items... are all some form of beggar.
Subtle or outright...it's all the same to me and I think it's shameful. Does no one have self respect anymore? I wouldn't be caught dead asking for something. Anything. Ever.
People who enable this behavior by gifting the items, are really no better. Enabling negative behavior doesn't make someone a hero. IMO, it makes them a push over. Right or wrong, it's how I feel.

I even go so far as to find the wishlist begging.

Ken (180078346) wrote:Eh. What's right and what's wrong is relative. I don't necessarily think that begging is "wrong," just opportunistic and manipulative. It's not something that I have a whole lot of respect for. As a couple of ladies have already said, enablers run rampant, so why wouldn't someone beg if they know that they can get something out of it?

Agreed, wouldn't be the first questionable thing done here in the game

Ken (180078346) wrote:Eh. What's right and what's wrong is relative. I don't necessarily think that begging is "wrong," just opportunistic and manipulative. It's not something that I have a whole lot of respect for. As a couple of ladies have already said, enablers run rampant, so why wouldn't someone beg if they know that they can get something out of it?

And where have you been mister?!?!?! Happy to see you here!

Xx Mya Xx (179243943) wrote:Genuine people with a shred of self respect don't go around begging, that's just how I feel. I never did it. I do give to people I get to know who are struggling, because it is so difficult to make coin and the cost of items have rocketed.

A BIG DITTO to what you said!

Moxii (105074356) wrote:No. I don't think it's right. And it's not only happening in game. It happens here... a lot.
I think people that beg for stuff, post sob stories for sympathy which = being gifted, are "looking" for the very specific item listing its theme, color, and how long they've been looking for it, complain how expensive specific items are, complain how expensive YC is and how they can't afford a specific item, want re-releases so as not to pay inflated prices for very specific items... are all some form of beggar.
Subtle or outright...it's all the same to me and I think it's shameful. Does no one have self respect anymore? I wouldn't be caught dead asking for something. Anything. Ever.
People who enable this behavior by gifting the items, are really no better. Enabling negative behavior doesn't make someone a hero. IMO, it makes them a push over. Right or wrong, it's how I feel.

People talk about scamming all the time. You know, those who take advantage of others in game are not tolerated according to BVG, so why should it be tolerated here? I think when people come here and post their sob stories, fake tragic events and illness, it is no different than scamming people in game. It is all manipulation and it is shameful.