Renee (108305250) wrote:Don't feel bad. I've done the same. Once in a while, you will come across one that isn't a beggar and truly appreciates what you do for them. The others? Just have to delete and move on. They'll either figure it out, find another sucker or quit. Don't worry. Theres plenty more where that one came from.
I have to tell you a little story. I ran across a young girl. At the time, I had no clue how old she was, but she seemed nice enough. We became friends and I see her almost every day now. After we had hung out a little while, she asked if she could borrow an item. I decided to take a chance and said yes. We traded. She took that item and wore it for a few days, then one day she popped up and said I need to give you your item back. I actually was shocked. That was a few weeks ago. Now, she is always borrowing my stuff. She always brings it back to me and trades for something else. I have let her borrow cheap stuff and stuff that costs a few millions.
Now she is after a certain hair that cost 2m. I've become her banker. She makes coins and brings them to me. They are all recorded on white boards. She has gotten up to almost 800k now. I told her that the coins were hers and she could get them any time she wanted but in order to move ahead in the game, she has to save and she has to sacrifice some times and not "want" it all.
She doesn't know that I've already purchased the hair shes after. I'm trying to teach her how to get a head in the game and always giving her what she wants and not making her work for isn't helping her.
I give her stuff to sale and tell her how much I want for it. If she sales for more than that, she gets the coins. So far its working out and I hope that some day in the future, maybe she will pay it forward and help someone like I'm helping her.

Renee (108305250) wrote:Don't feel bad. I've done the same. Once in a while, you will come across one that isn't a beggar and truly appreciates what you do for them. The others? Just have to delete and move on. They'll either figure it out, find another sucker or quit. Don't worry. Theres plenty more where that one came from.
I have to tell you a little story. I ran across a young girl. At the time, I had no clue how old she was, but she seemed nice enough. We became friends and I see her almost every day now. After we had hung out a little while, she asked if she could borrow an item. I decided to take a chance and said yes. We traded. She took that item and wore it for a few days, then one day she popped up and said I need to give you your item back. I actually was shocked. That was a few weeks ago. Now, she is always borrowing my stuff. She always brings it back to me and trades for something else. I have let her borrow cheap stuff and stuff that costs a few millions.
Now she is after a certain hair that cost 2m. I've become her banker. She makes coins and brings them to me. They are all recorded on white boards. She has gotten up to almost 800k now. I told her that the coins were hers and she could get them any time she wanted but in order to move ahead in the game, she has to save and she has to sacrifice some times and not "want" it all.
She doesn't know that I've already purchased the hair shes after. I'm trying to teach her how to get a head in the game and always giving her what she wants and not making her work for isn't helping her.
I give her stuff to sale and tell her how much I want for it. If she sales for more than that, she gets the coins. So far its working out and I hope that some day in the future, maybe she will pay it forward and help someone like I'm helping her.