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Stardust
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Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:25 pm
Christine (4327680) wrote:My story time:

I was a pretty normal young woman... chasing, chased, wondering, "maybe he's shy", "maybe this", "maybe that", "what if"...

I finally gave up and started following a philosophy from The Sweetest Thing. I stopped looking for Mr. Right, dated Mr. Right Now, and hoped someday the Now would just fade away...

So I was dating Mr. Right Now "Tom with the boat" to my forum friends who had numbered "cowboys" for years when they lost track. I had and still have lot of online friends I'd never met. I had one pretty local online friend whom I'd never met, and we started talking about good places to go for live trivia. Tom was busy one night, so I told this guy I'd meet him at a pub trivia, and as soon as I saw him at the bar, my mind, heart, soul, nethers, every bit of me said, "Oh. My. God." Trivia was cancelled there, so I brought him right to my "Cheers" even knowing a dozen people I know would be there. I broke up with Tom the next day and invited this guy over that night. We haven't been apart since and never plan to be. That trivia night is still going on, but I and then he have been the hosts of it for many years now. We got engaged at that same pub and we're there 2-3 nights a week, sometimes more.

Just live your life and let it happen. Anything I "helped" work out - never really did.


Glad for you, Christine!!
Though I can't say I'm glad for Tom, I hope he's doing fine with his boat, lol :haha:

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Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:33 pm
Tom wasn't too broken up. He was only dating Ms. Right Now, too. :haha:

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Sun Sep 15, 2019 8:54 pm
Christine (4327680) wrote:Tom wasn't too broken up. He was only dating Ms. Right Now, too. :haha:


Okay! I'm glad for him too then!! :haha:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 8:48 am
Christine (4327680) wrote:Now I just want to do a computerized reading every day so I can plot the results and see if I can figure out how they work.

I won't ask you to put any effort into it, Rod, but any time you have any prophecy about my Yo, feel free to share it. She's always a little discombobulated.

*dusts off the ole crystal ball*

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The mists reveal a shimmering lake of hair gel, a pair of scissors made of wet noodles, a chia pet running amok, and the scent of Chick Fil A. Your dream of opening a Yo hair salon in the Car Shop still calls to you as you sleep. Do not give into the urge. Stay away from beautician schools and players who own more than 100 hairs. They are a danger to you and your sanity. If you slide into that path know for certain that you will end up covered in lice and a mountain of hairs in some dark alley in Yo. Instead, seek the oracle of soft serve ice cream and she will surely show you the path.....and some larger pants.

:smug:

I still got it. :haha:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 9:56 am
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Mon Sep 16, 2019 10:19 am
When I was a teenager, one day a few of my friends and I were talking about palm reading. Being a know-it-all since birth (lol), I acted as if I could read their future, and told one of them: "Oh you will live a long life because the life line on your palm is long!"...Not long after that, suddenly one of my friends burst out crying! Why?? I was shocked to learn that she cried because she found out that her life line was short!! I felt very guilty and did my best to convince her not to believe in palmistry. That was also the last time I ever read anyone's palm!!

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 11:16 am
Coincidentally My Lifeline is crossed 3 x and Ive flat lined 3x
Now Jungian synchronicity would say That which we imagine or believe as children we subconsciously make come true.

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 11:42 am
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:Yeah I read tarot cards since granny taught me ages ago. I usually only read them now on Halloween and New Years I also studied the symbolism and mythology of associated religions of the more elaborate decks. I use The Rider Waite /Celtic/Stairs of Gold decks if thats any help.


hi thank you for responding my thread i would love to have a reading from u idk how it works but i want to know what he thinks about me ,is that possible for a reading


ummm yes and no
If you really want someone to read then NEVER tell them why because now i would be left wondering what you are going to do since it has become a yes or no question. Thats not something a real card reader would answer.
But as a reader and lover of psychology Id have to say the real question would be
What do you think of him that would spawn you to ask to get reassurance
Which makes me wonder if you truly like/love him or if you would like/love him IF he did so as well
Which then makes me wonder the nature of the relationship as it stands.
I venture HE is a friend in your group or a co worker Some group situation.
Usually online Ill draw a single card not a full Celtic clock YOUR card was the Nine of Coins Which I would boil down to self confidence. So I would reflect that your feeling make you act differently around him Which in turn is making him wonder why Soooooo My advice. ACT LIKE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF.


well first of all thank you for time and this awesome answer to me :heart:
i truly like him and i had feelings that he likes me as well but in the first meeting he wasnt like what i expected and i took that a bit negative after that he never called me or texted he did nothing for 10 months !!! he saw me after those 10 months and then this time i acted like he doesnt exist ,when he looked at me i didnt care ,when he waved his hand i didnt care etc... so great point that u said i dont show my feelings because i feel like i was rejected at first so dont want to seem like a fool and get hurt ,, i acted so cold .. but i like him so much just scared maybe he have someone in his life now havent seen for 3 weeks......
appreciate ur advice but what if he rejects me and what if i find out that he really doesnt care about me so how can i act like myself :'(


From what you wrote, it sounds like you knew him through texts and calls first before your first meeting. Then after that first meeting, he left you with no news for 10 months. Then you met him again in a gathering, he looked and waved at you but you ignored him, and now it has been 3 weeks without him contacting you. From my experience, guys love to chase girls especially if the girls act cold and indifferent. Most guys are born hunters. If he does not chase you, it can only mean you are not that important in his life. He may like you but only as a friend. I am so sorry to say this, but I do not wish you to waste your time thinking about him, or get hurt. Maybe it is time to move on and look for another guy who truly likes you. Good luck! :)


hi stardust ,
we are living in same town in summers so we knew eachother for years but we never was friends, last summer he was looked at me alot of time so i sent him text via instagram , thats how we met ,
thanks for ur opinion , i always think that he didnt want me but there are questions if i pushed him doing that ,ignoring him being cold etc...
well i want make the effort when he doesnt make with me , i ll see what life brings to me , thank u again :heart:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 11:44 am
Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:Yeah I read tarot cards since granny taught me ages ago. I usually only read them now on Halloween and New Years I also studied the symbolism and mythology of associated religions of the more elaborate decks. I use The Rider Waite /Celtic/Stairs of Gold decks if thats any help.


hi thank you for responding my thread i would love to have a reading from u idk how it works but i want to know what he thinks about me ,is that possible for a reading


ummm yes and no
If you really want someone to read then NEVER tell them why because now i would be left wondering what you are going to do since it has become a yes or no question. Thats not something a real card reader would answer.
But as a reader and lover of psychology Id have to say the real question would be
What do you think of him that would spawn you to ask to get reassurance
Which makes me wonder if you truly like/love him or if you would like/love him IF he did so as well
Which then makes me wonder the nature of the relationship as it stands.
I venture HE is a friend in your group or a co worker Some group situation.
Usually online Ill draw a single card not a full Celtic clock YOUR card was the Nine of Coins Which I would boil down to self confidence. So I would reflect that your feeling make you act differently around him Which in turn is making him wonder why Soooooo My advice. ACT LIKE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF.


well first of all thank you for time and this awesome answer to me :heart:
i truly like him and i had feelings that he likes me as well but in the first meeting he wasnt like what i expected and i took that a bit negative after that he never called me or texted he did nothing for 10 months !!! he saw me after those 10 months and then this time i acted like he doesnt exist ,when he looked at me i didnt care ,when he waved his hand i didnt care etc... so great point that u said i dont show my feelings because i feel like i was rejected at first so dont want to seem like a fool and get hurt ,, i acted so cold .. but i like him so much just scared maybe he have someone in his life now havent seen for 3 weeks......
appreciate ur advice but what if he rejects me and what if i find out that he really doesnt care about me so how can i act like myself :'(


From what you wrote, it sounds like you knew him through texts and calls first before your first meeting. Then after that first meeting, he left you with no news for 10 months. Then you met him again in a gathering, he looked and waved at you but you ignored him, and now it has been 3 weeks without him contacting you. From my experience, guys love to chase girls especially if the girls act cold and indifferent. Most guys are born hunters. If he does not chase you, it can only mean you are not that important in his life. He may like you but only as a friend. I am so sorry to say this, but I do not wish you to waste your time thinking about him, or get hurt. Maybe it is time to move on and look for another guy who truly likes you. Good luck! :)

I feel like I'm reading Dear Abby. But if a guy I liked looked and waved, I'd wave back! You sent the wrong message, maybe it's time for you to pursue him. :thumbsup:


lol yes i did because i was feeling rejected after he is not calling me for 10 months , so i acted like i didnt care :eh:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 11:47 am
Christine (4327680) wrote:My story time:

I was a pretty normal young woman... chasing, chased, wondering, "maybe he's shy", "maybe this", "maybe that", "what if"...

I finally gave up and started following a philosophy from The Sweetest Thing. I stopped looking for Mr. Right, dated Mr. Right Now, and hoped someday the Now would just fade away...

So I was dating Mr. Right Now "Tom with the boat" to my forum friends who had numbered "cowboys" for years when they lost track. I had and still have lot of online friends I'd never met. I had one pretty local online friend whom I'd never met, and we started talking about good places to go for live trivia. Tom was busy one night, so I told this guy I'd meet him at a pub trivia, and as soon as I saw him at the bar, my mind, heart, soul, nethers, every bit of me said, "Oh. My. God." Trivia was cancelled there, so I brought him right to my "Cheers" even knowing a dozen people I know would be there. I broke up with Tom the next day and invited this guy over that night. We haven't been apart since and never plan to be. That trivia night is still going on, but I and then he have been the hosts of it for many years now. We got engaged at that same pub and we're there 2-3 nights a week, sometimes more.

Just live your life and let it happen. Anything I "helped" work out - never really did.


wow christine this is a wonderful story ... yes i ll take ur advice and will live my life and let it happen i have no another choise , :heart:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 12:08 pm
diana (167204802) wrote:
Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:Yeah I read tarot cards since granny taught me ages ago. I usually only read them now on Halloween and New Years I also studied the symbolism and mythology of associated religions of the more elaborate decks. I use The Rider Waite /Celtic/Stairs of Gold decks if thats any help.


hi thank you for responding my thread i would love to have a reading from u idk how it works but i want to know what he thinks about me ,is that possible for a reading


ummm yes and no
If you really want someone to read then NEVER tell them why because now i would be left wondering what you are going to do since it has become a yes or no question. Thats not something a real card reader would answer.
But as a reader and lover of psychology Id have to say the real question would be
What do you think of him that would spawn you to ask to get reassurance
Which makes me wonder if you truly like/love him or if you would like/love him IF he did so as well
Which then makes me wonder the nature of the relationship as it stands.
I venture HE is a friend in your group or a co worker Some group situation.
Usually online Ill draw a single card not a full Celtic clock YOUR card was the Nine of Coins Which I would boil down to self confidence. So I would reflect that your feeling make you act differently around him Which in turn is making him wonder why Soooooo My advice. ACT LIKE YOURSELF BE YOURSELF.


well first of all thank you for time and this awesome answer to me :heart:
i truly like him and i had feelings that he likes me as well but in the first meeting he wasnt like what i expected and i took that a bit negative after that he never called me or texted he did nothing for 10 months !!! he saw me after those 10 months and then this time i acted like he doesnt exist ,when he looked at me i didnt care ,when he waved his hand i didnt care etc... so great point that u said i dont show my feelings because i feel like i was rejected at first so dont want to seem like a fool and get hurt ,, i acted so cold .. but i like him so much just scared maybe he have someone in his life now havent seen for 3 weeks......
appreciate ur advice but what if he rejects me and what if i find out that he really doesnt care about me so how can i act like myself :'(


From what you wrote, it sounds like you knew him through texts and calls first before your first meeting. Then after that first meeting, he left you with no news for 10 months. Then you met him again in a gathering, he looked and waved at you but you ignored him, and now it has been 3 weeks without him contacting you. From my experience, guys love to chase girls especially if the girls act cold and indifferent. Most guys are born hunters. If he does not chase you, it can only mean you are not that important in his life. He may like you but only as a friend. I am so sorry to say this, but I do not wish you to waste your time thinking about him, or get hurt. Maybe it is time to move on and look for another guy who truly likes you. Good luck! :)

I feel like I'm reading Dear Abby. But if a guy I liked looked and waved, I'd wave back! You sent the wrong message, maybe it's time for you to pursue him. :thumbsup:


lol yes i did because i was feeling rejected after he is not calling me for 10 months , so i acted like i didnt care :eh:


It's always better to act according to how you feel - don't play games. In the long run, you can only be you, and trying to act otherwise just confuses others around you.

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 12:28 pm
Doodler (10729465) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:
Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
From what you wrote, it sounds like you knew him through texts and calls first before your first meeting. Then after that first meeting, he left you with no news for 10 months. Then you met him again in a gathering, he looked and waved at you but you ignored him, and now it has been 3 weeks without him contacting you. From my experience, guys love to chase girls especially if the girls act cold and indifferent. Most guys are born hunters. If he does not chase you, it can only mean you are not that important in his life. He may like you but only as a friend. I am so sorry to say this, but I do not wish you to waste your time thinking about him, or get hurt. Maybe it is time to move on and look for another guy who truly likes you. Good luck! :)

I feel like I'm reading Dear Abby. But if a guy I liked looked and waved, I'd wave back! You sent the wrong message, maybe it's time for you to pursue him. :thumbsup:


lol yes i did because i was feeling rejected after he is not calling me for 10 months , so i acted like i didnt care :eh:


It's always better to act according to how you feel - don't play games. In the long run, you can only be you, and trying to act otherwise just confuses others around you.


i know you are right i regret now ... :sad:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 5:33 pm
Frothy (126579776) wrote:The mists reveal a shimmering lake of hair gel, a pair of scissors made of wet noodles, a chia pet running amok, and the scent of Chick Fil A. Your dream of opening a Yo hair salon in the Car Shop still calls to you as you sleep. Do not give into the urge. Stay away from beautician schools and players who own more than 100 hairs. They are a danger to you and your sanity. If you slide into that path know for certain that you will end up covered in lice and a mountain of hairs in some dark alley in Yo. Instead, seek the oracle of soft serve ice cream and she will surely show you the path.....and some larger pants.

:haha:
The oracle of soft serve ice cream has shown me her path many, many times. If that's what I have to do to avoid lice, I guess I HAVE to...

:hug:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 5:35 pm
diana (167204802) wrote:i ll take ur advice and will live my life and let it happen i have no another choise , :heart:

Best wishes. :heart:

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Mon Sep 16, 2019 5:50 pm
Christine (4327680) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:i ll take ur advice and will live my life and let it happen i have no another choise , :heart:

Best wishes. :heart:


thank you :heart:

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Tue Sep 17, 2019 11:43 am
I learned to read palms in the Caribbean


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Tue Sep 17, 2019 11:50 am
THE SCORPIONS (184182673) wrote:I learned to read palms in the Caribbean


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That as awful. I love it :haha: :love:

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Tue Sep 17, 2019 1:36 pm
omg guys latest news !! i watched too many youtube tarot videos last night and everything they said was same as i had with him and it was like those ppl who own videos were like reading personal tarot just for me and i wanted to try to text him one more last time and see if the problem was me , i mean if i was wrong to him and if i gave wrong message...so i wrote him that i miss seeing him around... it was 1.55 am when i texted :eh: he saw it at 5 am in the morning and no answer till now o_o i feel very bad and got rejected again all my cool acting in 10 months gone i look so stupid to him , i bet he was like didnt i show her enough that i didnt like her she still dare to text me :dizzy: am thinking he has someone in his life as i guessed but anyway it was so rude to ignore my text like i dont exist i never expected , but the good way i wont be thinking of him anymore i wont think anymore if it was my fault or etc... etc.. etc.. time to move on .. :angel:

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Tue Sep 17, 2019 2:15 pm
diana (167204802) wrote:omg guys latest news !! i watched too many youtube tarot videos last night and everything they said was same as i had with him and it was like those ppl who own videos were like reading personal tarot just for me and i wanted to try to text him one more last time and see if the problem was me , i mean if i was wrong to him and if i gave wrong message...so i wrote him that i miss seeing him around... it was 1.55 am when i texted :eh: he saw it at 5 am in the morning and no answer till now o_o i feel very bad and got rejected again all my cool acting in 10 months gone i look so stupid to him , i bet he was like didnt i show her enough that i didnt like her she still dare to text me :dizzy: am thinking he has someone in his life as i guessed but anyway it was so rude to ignore my text like i dont exist i never expected , but the good way i wont be thinking of him anymore i wont think anymore if it was my fault or etc... etc.. etc.. time to move on .. :angel:

I'm sorry you feel bad but yes, it wasn't meant to be. There may be others that aren't 'the one' either but you will eventually find who you are meant to be with. :hug:

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Tue Sep 17, 2019 2:29 pm
Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:
diana (167204802) wrote:omg guys latest news !! i watched too many youtube tarot videos last night and everything they said was same as i had with him and it was like those ppl who own videos were like reading personal tarot just for me and i wanted to try to text him one more last time and see if the problem was me , i mean if i was wrong to him and if i gave wrong message...so i wrote him that i miss seeing him around... it was 1.55 am when i texted :eh: he saw it at 5 am in the morning and no answer till now o_o i feel very bad and got rejected again all my cool acting in 10 months gone i look so stupid to him , i bet he was like didnt i show her enough that i didnt like her she still dare to text me :dizzy: am thinking he has someone in his life as i guessed but anyway it was so rude to ignore my text like i dont exist i never expected , but the good way i wont be thinking of him anymore i wont think anymore if it was my fault or etc... etc.. etc.. time to move on .. :angel:

I'm sorry you feel bad but yes, it wasn't meant to be. There may be others that aren't 'the one' either but you will eventually find who you are meant to be with. :hug:


yes i feel bad but i have no questions in my head anymore,anyways ignoring my text was very disrespectful but am very strong :angel: tyvm for ur wishes :hug: :heart:
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