My Buddy list is messed up it keep saying I have 4 friends and they offline then when I add someone it automatically puts them as off line Does anyone know how to fix this.

This problem happened to me a lot. Especially during the dark age of Z. What I did was click on the avi again and click Relationships, then Friends. Once the other Yo agrees on the relationship, he/she will show up on buddy list.

Hopefully, buddy list glich is one of the many issues on BVG's to do list They are making great progress, so I won't be surprised if this issue is solved very soon

That doesnt work I tried and its that it deleted everyone except like 4 people

It happened today for many people - there were some threads posted in Discussions section. I reckon they are working on an update for buddy lists and that all we could do at this point is wait.