just a general discussion want to say when one of our good friends basically our yo fam on this game those we consider good friends when someone gets hurt and is off the game for months ... let them be .. don't ask the moment they come back to buy something, let them be and come back to yo and adjust and figure it out and enjoy. i saw the last few times my friend get off because of this when i was having a great conversation about life but coming in strong and leaving all these messages about buying stuff remember just like in real life some people only adjust and trust certain people and want to feel comfy when they first come back just give them time we don't want to run our yo fam away let them be and when they get comfortable again they will be back but some of our yo folks like myself only trust a few people just as my friend im talking about this is not in a mean way just let our yo folks readjust as come back thank you all <3