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Wed May 19, 2021 10:41 pm
Meh (126579776) wrote:So I met someone this week that has placed their hope in the possibility that covid will eventually disappear. I just don't see this as realistic at all. Viruses are survivors. They mutate and spread and lie dormant. They can even find hosts to co exist with as an active virus without harming the host, using it as a super spreader. But I'm always willing to learn.

Do you guys think covid will ever disappear? :?: :?: :?:

No

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Thu May 20, 2021 5:48 pm
Fazer (126579776) wrote:So I met someone this week that has placed their hope in the possibility that covid will eventually disappear. I just don't see this as realistic at all. Viruses are survivors. They mutate and spread and lie dormant. They can even find hosts to co exist with as an active virus without harming the host, using it as a super spreader. But I'm always willing to learn.

Do you guys think covid will ever disappear? :?: :?: :?:



As an RN in a LTC Nursing home, I truly believe we will be dealing with some form of this COVID for many years. There could be super spreaders in the future, but it remains to be seen. As a nurse in a nursing home that has the care of 30 patients, I get tested at the minimum now, once a week. I've been negative since it started back in March. My unit had the 3rd, 4th and 5th patients get sick. They went to a COVID isolation unit in our building, all survived. I was reassigned to the COVID unit as none of the other nurses wanted to take it on. I have not been vaccinated and do not plan to, however if it is added to the seasonal flu shot this fall, I will take it then. I am actually more afraid of the influenza that the pharmaceutical doctors use each year against the flu for this winter. They are pretty much right on the spot with their predictions. I will continue to use my mask and gloves and hand cleaner to keep myself and patients safe. I am still self isolating, only go for groceries. I'm sad of the isolation, but it's worked for me and my beloved residents. It's been tough on my family, too.

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Sun May 23, 2021 7:57 pm
Gracie (127997951) wrote:
Fazer (126579776) wrote:So I met someone this week that has placed their hope in the possibility that covid will eventually disappear. I just don't see this as realistic at all. Viruses are survivors. They mutate and spread and lie dormant. They can even find hosts to co exist with as an active virus without harming the host, using it as a super spreader. But I'm always willing to learn.

Do you guys think covid will ever disappear? :?: :?: :?:



As an RN in a LTC Nursing home, I truly believe we will be dealing with some form of this COVID for many years. There could be super spreaders in the future, but it remains to be seen. As a nurse in a nursing home that has the care of 30 patients, I get tested at the minimum now, once a week. I've been negative since it started back in March. My unit had the 3rd, 4th and 5th patients get sick. They went to a COVID isolation unit in our building, all survived. I was reassigned to the COVID unit as none of the other nurses wanted to take it on. I have not been vaccinated and do not plan to, however if it is added to the seasonal flu shot this fall, I will take it then. I am actually more afraid of the influenza that the pharmaceutical doctors use each year against the flu for this winter. They are pretty much right on the spot with their predictions. I will continue to use my mask and gloves and hand cleaner to keep myself and patients safe. I am still self isolating, only go for groceries. I'm sad of the isolation, but it's worked for me and my beloved residents. It's been tough on my family, too.


I too work in a nursing home looking after the elderly mainly, we have been extremely lucky and only had 3 residents actually have full blown covid all but 1 survived, the one who passed had a lot of other issues and illnesses
I myself have been extremely lucky not having had the vaccine, covid or symptoms and worked through it all and am still doing so.
Different shift pattern and longer days plus trying to keep family and friends safe. Trying to juggle all this is tiring in itself sometimes.
Luckily where I am now (Manchester UK) it's slowly getting to some kind of normal life, whatever normal is but I think this too raises anxiety levels in a lot of us, I know it does me at times, mainly when on public transport, more so when there's always those who think it's ok not to wear a face mask o_o

No I don't ever think it'll totally disappear.
I personally think it'll be here for the rest of my life just hopefully not as bad as it has been this past year

Hope all of you are safe and well :hug: :heart:

Gracie
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Sun May 23, 2021 8:24 pm
Undecided (185859185) wrote:
Gracie (127997951) wrote:
Fazer (126579776) wrote:So I met someone this week that has placed their hope in the possibility that covid will eventually disappear. I just don't see this as realistic at all. Viruses are survivors. They mutate and spread and lie dormant. They can even find hosts to co exist with as an active virus without harming the host, using it as a super spreader. But I'm always willing to learn.

Do you guys think covid will ever disappear? :?: :?: :?:



As an RN in a LTC Nursing home, I truly believe we will be dealing with some form of this COVID for many years. There could be super spreaders in the future, but it remains to be seen. As a nurse in a nursing home that has the care of 30 patients, I get tested at the minimum now, once a week. I've been negative since it started back in March. My unit had the 3rd, 4th and 5th patients get sick. They went to a COVID isolation unit in our building, all survived. I was reassigned to the COVID unit as none of the other nurses wanted to take it on. I have not been vaccinated and do not plan to, however if it is added to the seasonal flu shot this fall, I will take it then. I am actually more afraid of the influenza that the pharmaceutical doctors use each year against the flu for this winter. They are pretty much right on the spot with their predictions. I will continue to use my mask and gloves and hand cleaner to keep myself and patients safe. I am still self isolating, only go for groceries. I'm sad of the isolation, but it's worked for me and my beloved residents. It's been tough on my family, too.


I too work in a nursing home looking after the elderly mainly, we have been extremely lucky and only had 3 residents actually have full blown covid all but 1 survived, the one who passed had a lot of other issues and illnesses
I myself have been extremely lucky not having had the vaccine, covid or symptoms and worked through it all and am still doing so.
Different shift pattern and longer days plus trying to keep family and friends safe. Trying to juggle all this is tiring in itself sometimes.
Luckily where I am now (Manchester UK) it's slowly getting to some kind of normal life, whatever normal is but I think this too raises anxiety levels in a lot of us, I know it does me at times, mainly when on public transport, more so when there's always those who think it's ok not to wear a face mask o_o

No I don't ever think it'll totally disappear.
I personally think it'll be here for the rest of my life just hopefully not as bad as it has been this past year

Hope all of you are safe and well :hug: :heart:


Good to hear that someone overseas has had the same experience and survived it. My Nursing facility has almost 200 beds. We lost, in total, 17 residents who were extremely ill in hospital. Most of them were obese, diabetic or dialysis patients. I was working the 3 to 11 shift, but I was begged to switch to a different floor for the COVID patients on the 11 to 7 shift and here I remain. There have been 3 Sundays I have had to cover both units for a total of 58 patients. I work my butt off on those days, I do rounds every 2 hours and still have time to help change patients who have been incontinent of both urine and bowel movements and still do my 2 med passes. I am exhausted after those Sundays and sleep almost 22 hours afterwards. My shoulders and lower back are killing as these people need constant position and incontinent changes and my CNA's need help. I am always available to help and they are good employees who love the residents as much as I do. My family loves and supports me in my job. I have not taken a vacation in close to 3 years. I only took off one day for a wedding. I love nursing.

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Mon May 24, 2021 3:11 pm
Gracie (127997951) wrote:Good to hear that someone overseas has had the same experience and survived it. My Nursing facility has almost 200 beds. We lost, in total, 17 residents who were extremely ill in hospital. Most of them were obese, diabetic or dialysis patients. I was working the 3 to 11 shift, but I was begged to switch to a different floor for the COVID patients on the 11 to 7 shift and here I remain. There have been 3 Sundays I have had to cover both units for a total of 58 patients. I work my butt off on those days, I do rounds every 2 hours and still have time to help change patients who have been incontinent of both urine and bowel movements and still do my 2 med passes. I am exhausted after those Sundays and sleep almost 22 hours afterwards. My shoulders and lower back are killing as these people need constant position and incontinent changes and my CNA's need help. I am always available to help and they are good employees who love the residents as much as I do. My family loves and supports me in my job. I have not taken a vacation in close to 3 years. I only took off one day for a wedding. I love nursing.


I know that feeling all too well too, the job is a far cry from what it was when I first started
Makes a huge difference too, I too am lucky to have an understanding and supportive family and friend circle, although some of my friends can't understand why I do the job I do and more so through these bad times.
How I look at is that through this past year everyone has had a bad time of it one way or another but the residents or care/nursing homes have had it harder than most.
They haven't been able to have physical contact with their families, but then some don't have any family at all.
some have been lucky enough to have a window visit unfortunately some don't understand why family can't come in to visit.
It's been absolutely heartbreaking at times
They have only had the staff who look after them to give them comforting words and support, even the odd hug when needed

Rod
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Tue Aug 03, 2021 3:06 pm
I had an alarming conversation with a few good people the other night. The premise of the contention was the idea that covid could be eradicated if everyone got vaxxed and followed all protocols indefinitely. He's in medicine. so I let him run with it for a bit while I listened and contemplated the ideas being tossed around.

The first fallacy is that we can all arrive at the same immunity levels simultaneously. A person with a strong immune response is going to react to and dispense with the virus much quicker and differently than someone with a weak system.

Problem two is that there is no evidence that someone who has recovered is no longer carrying or transmitting the live virus. Viruses are notorious about surviving, which means they can hide within us. Read up on shingles if you disagree. There is already some evidence of people who have been both infected and later vaccinated, still carrying live virus.

And problem three is always people. They won't follow instructions, even in countries where they are under threat of fine or prison. The younger they are, the less they willingly cooperate, especially after 18 months of trying.

So this all leads me to believe the virus is here forever. We can vax everyone at noon next Friday, and it will still be here waiting when immune systems start lagging. We could intentionally infect every living soul with live virus on the same day, and the damn thing would still be here 6 months later. It's not going away. It's never going away. Supposedly we vaxed polio away, yet it still exists in parts of the world. Because these things are always waiting. The herd will never be strong enough simultaneously to wipe it out. Because - life.

Obviously these are my opinions. And I was challenged by most of the people chatting with me for having them - including my bride. LOL What do you think? Will we ever be rid of covid or will we be in a perpetual up and down infection - just like we've been in with the flu?

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Tue Aug 03, 2021 3:24 pm
I think it shows that we need to astronomically boost our medical research, especially towards stuff like Nanobots, disease research of all kinds, and various other things to boost our health and quality of life.



In the mean time, people should take personal responsibility, and do what they can to help stop the spread.

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Thu Aug 05, 2021 11:09 am
Ringer (126579776) wrote:It's been a year since we've chatted about the pandemic. We've seen way too many people die. We've seen way too many people have their lives upended. And hopefully, we've learned some things.

I don't know anyone personally who died. I know of 2 people in my circle who had family who died, and one person who spent 3 weeks in the hospital. And I think about a third of my family and friends have tested positive at some point on the path, including my parents. I have 2 friends who lost their businesses. I have another 3 who were close. I also have 3 who have seen their businesses flourish. And I have one friend who got into the covid cleaning business and made a good living. Most of the people I know who lost jobs or got temp furloughed got their jobs back with one exception. And personally, I got the stupid bug on a trip to NYC back in Feb 2020. It gave me the sniffles for a day.

My husband lost one of his best friends to covid. I lost some very good FB friends to it, as well. I'm one of the people that would probably die if I were to catch it as I have asthma and COPD/emphysema. So, while our mask mandates have been lifted in this state and my husband and I are fully vaccinated for covid, we still mask up if we go inside anywhere.

So it's been a tough teacher in some ways. But has society learned anything? Have you learned anything? Has science/medicine impressed you? Did the use of the pandemic as a political weapon bother you? Is your life the same? Better? There's so many interesting topics about it.


Science has impressed me. They already had the technology to put this vaccine out quickly from when they dealt with SARS. They only needed to, in essence, change the code. I'm friends with a virologist on FB and it's a fascinating subject that I could gloss over, but I can't get into the technicality of it. I can simply admire the efficiency. The use of this virus as a political weapon is ri-damn-diculous. A virus doesn't care which type of politics you identify with. It will infect anyone. My life is not the same. We no longer go on our customary summer campouts.


And before we get going, there's no right or wrong here. We may all have different opinions, and most likely do. I hope we can all respect that. I'll ask a Vike to close the thread if it gets anywhere close to what it became when we tried this last year.

:)

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Fri Aug 06, 2021 5:50 pm
Hi. Thoughts on this from FL here.... I think it's going to be around for quite some time. I know many people who have had it, some severe, some not as much. A couple of them have died (not necessarily from FL, friends from my home state of MI, etc). My young niece had it and still has no taste, so there are long term effects for some. My brother thinks it's all "propaganda" and thinks it's all a lie. Hoping that works out for him, since we just buried my mom 2 months ago (not covid related). Now I can worry about him. Hubby's son also the same.... I just feel fortunate that my own son did wind up with his vaccines (pre-existing conditions with that one, and claiming he was too busy because "life gets in the way" until I finally had to tell him I can't force him to do anything, he's all grown up now and next thing you know, he went in for his 2nd shot)....

My husband had a heart attack (not related to covid) in October, and what a scene in the hospitals it was. We are fortunate that he is better, but the scenes in the hospitals down here are worse now than they were then.

We live down in the Keys, so getting anything with vaccines early on was a total crapshoot. He wound up having to drive 3 hours to get his, and when my time came up (different ages), I was lucky to get an appointment down here. Now anyone can walk in and just get them, but people are refusing. Business has been crazy busy, but no one seems to have the right number of workers, so now there are weird business hours, closing times.... hell, you can't even walk into a bank unless there are more than 2 employees in there (got that info when I finally found a branch that had enough people to let me in to deal with a hacked debit card) :dizzy:

It got so ridiculously political last year at my work that I wound up just having had enough and resigned, took some time off (until hubby got sick and tired of me mother henning him to death!), and found another job that is much more to my liking. Funny about the old job. In the beginning, I (along with most of the rest of the country), got laid off, then called back to work from home, then called back to the office only to return to a massive pay cut, and then an offer to resume my salary but have to work even more hours and extra jobs because no one else really wanted to come back. Throw the FL unemployment mess into that, and whew. Last year totally sucked.

I guess the one thing that gives me hope right now is the higher number of people that are vaccinating due to this delta variant. I worry about the kids going back to school down here next week with all the hoopla going on with "executive orders" and all (my son is grown, so not a concern for me on that level) ..... too much bad information seems to make for bad decisions, and I don't know where this ends. Since it seems to be mutating, I can't really compare it with the flu right now, but later on, with booster shots and stuff.....maybe?

Lol...I'll probably have a whole other view on that in a couple of months once we get through this variant and probably discover the next. Sorry to be so long winded!

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Sat Aug 07, 2021 1:43 am
Aloha

Interesting fact.... Since the pandemic started, dozens of studies have reported that many of the sickest Covid-19 patients have been people with obesity. And this is not a piece of fake news or alternative fact, or politically motivated propaganda.
Researchers pooled data from scores of peer-reviewed papers capturing 399,000 patients. They found that people with obesity who contracted Covid-19 were 113% more likely than people of healthy weight to land in the hospital, 74% more likely to be admitted to an ICU, and 48% more likely to die. It's hard to argue with facts and data, right?

So, this tells us that we are facing a national health crisis and because obesity is stigmatized, people may avoid medical care. Obesity is a sensitive topic and one would be worried about being politically incorrect instead of relying on facts and science!
Why a clear message to diet and improve food habits weren’t sent out at the start of the pandemic?? Instead, we had the wall-to-wall coverage of hospitals with packed ICUs and shortage of ventilators and spreading fear among people.
This is the time that we should put more importance on the nation's public health. The pandemic has shed a light on a more prominent health crisis.

Mahalo

McKinley
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Sat Aug 07, 2021 11:29 am
Honestly, I just see a lot of this going on.

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Sun Aug 08, 2021 6:06 pm
So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...

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Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...


This is a pretty solid take Erwyle. Thank you for sharing.

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Sun Aug 08, 2021 6:19 pm
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...



I'm sorry for your loss in your family :rose:

I think, as humans, we've all taken a little too much for granted and this is our payback.

For me, right from the get go it was all about us doing this as a team. Yes, a lot of that comes from where I live. Yes, our prime minister is loved by the world. PS: she's not as holy as she might look......we've all got good and bad in us.
With or without her, I know, as a country, the majority of us would have done what we did and continue to do because it is and has never been about just yourself. Life is about giving as much as you can, not just taking all you can get.
I know for me personally, the very last thing I want to ever have to live with, is the fact that if I wasn't careful and didn't practice safe distancing, and was carrying the virus and in a round about kind of way it caused the death of someone I knew or even didn't know. I don't know if I could actually live with myself. So I do what I do, not just for me, but for those that I come in contact with.

We need to learn the world doesn't revolve around us.

Erwyle
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DinosaurNerd89 (11877186) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...


This is a pretty solid take Erwyle. Thank you for sharing.

:hug:

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Mir (102794171) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...



I'm sorry for your loss in your family :rose:

I think, as humans, we've all taken a little too much for granted and this is our payback.

For me, right from the get go it was all about us doing this as a team. Yes, a lot of that comes from where I live. Yes, our prime minister is loved by the world. PS: she's not as holy as she might look......we've all got good and bad in us.
With or without her, I know, as a country, the majority of us would have done what we did and continue to do because it is and has never been about just yourself. Life is about giving as much as you can, not just taking all you can get.
I know for me personally, the very last thing I want to ever have to live with, is the fact that if I wasn't careful and didn't practice safe distancing, and was carrying the virus and in a round about kind of way it caused the death of someone I knew or even didn't know. I don't know if I could actually live with myself. So I do what I do, not just for me, but for those that I come in contact with.

We need to learn the world doesn't revolve around us.


Yeah, being Covid Mary would be a great stain on one's soul I think. But, for me, that's a new concept. Like it or not, I'm just going to have to get used to the idea.

Thank you Mir...
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Cindy
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Sun Aug 08, 2021 9:13 pm
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...


Thank you for sharing. :heart:

Rod
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Mon Aug 09, 2021 8:51 am
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...

I think the arc of understanding has been similar for a lot of us. The lack of trusted facts made it difficult to assess the truth of many important things. When the politicians and media conspire to hype things and social media is used to spread lies, people no longer know who to rely on for data. It's exhausting trying to sift through it all. I'd watch news reports that made me feel like millions were dropping dead in the streets, and meanwhile the world I live in was like "no big deal bruh". But neither were true.

And so it's ramping up again. The spread is affecting the unvaccinated and vaccinated. The hospitals are filling up. Additional people are dying. Children seem to be affected more by the new variant. The thing continues to haunt primarily the old and fragile. But what is also true is that the virus is no deadlier than it was before delta, the vaccinated aren't getting as sick as the unvaccinated, and in the places where delta reared up, they are already experiencing declines in spread. This too shall pass.......and take too many with it.

I watched my neighborhood chat board turn into a war zone over covid this weekend. People who seem so nice, suddenly tearing at each other with their opinions about facts and lies. Fear is a real thing......it is just as real as arrogant denial. Both are flawed when it comes to making good decisions.

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Mon Aug 09, 2021 9:01 am
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...



We're both vaccinated in this household. There never was a question of if, just when. I got my second shot in April. My husband was one of the first 500,000 people vaccinated in the state of Washington.
As bad as this Delta strain is, there is another strain that they have labeled as Lambda, that originated in Peru, that is cause for concern.
If more people would mask up and get vaccinated, they wouldn't leave this virus anywhere to go so it can continue to mutate. But...

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Mon Aug 09, 2021 10:35 am
Cindy (133856555) wrote:
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:So, I am almost 62 and started out Republican then switched to Democrat in the early 90's primarily because my two biggest issues are human rights and environment, and for both issues, the D's are superior by far imo. Just wanted to get that out of the way.

I originally sided with Trump because I could see how the impact of lockdowns could lead to social collapse. I also didn't like the new idea that I was responsible for someone else's health and well being. I felt that it was up to each person to protect himself. I bought the idea that this was no worse than a flu, and people die of that every year. Why make such a fuss about this?

Well, I've shifted a bit since then. Now, I feel like if everyone planet wide had taken this seriously, and banded together in common cause for the greater good, we might have more people living now and the extent of the disease might have been contained. Too late for that now. Shoulda, coulda, woulda.

My wife's father and brother died, not from Covid, but there were no funerals or memorials for them, and they were cremated against their wishes. The idea that the kids who really thrive on interaction and need instruction were not getting any of that bothers me a lot. Businesses failed, museums and concerts cancelled. On and on.

I built up a great deal of anger, not at anyone in particular, just at the situation. I thought, geez, this is some sh*t. Why can't we as a modern culture do better? And it seems like the rules made on the fly, without any form of democratic process, are now becoming permanent. The world has changed forever.

It's not just Covid, nor its delta variant, but the one that's coming after those I fear. Caught between a rock and a hard place we are. Damned if we do, damned if we don't. I think that's what bugs me the most. The idea that this is the new normal and yesterday is gone forever. I guess I'll have to deal. It's better than being dead I guess. But I never had anxiety about the future before. Don't like it.

PS, I was among the first to get both shots and I've always worn a mask for my sake. So far so good. But the future? Oy! I guess nothing in life is guaranteed. Not even life itself...


Thank you for sharing. :heart:

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