YoVille will NEVER ask for your password, so please be wary of malicious emails and/or forum posts that request your password, including via web links.
YoVille Community Forum

You are not logged in. Viewing as Guest

Serenity Now
YoDedicated

Status:
Registered: Dec 10, 2008
Posts: 5770

Wed Aug 11, 2021 12:03 pm
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

Fear warns us of danger and the need to protect ourselves, but it is hope that gets us out of bed every day. Fear, without hope, can lead to self-destructive behaviors.


Sorry I missed this post. Hope is not a primal instinct, fear is. Hope is learned, fear is inherent. Therefore, fear plays the foremost and basic role for survival, even before birth.

The topic appeared to be faith and/or hope vs/compared to fear, and did not appear to be limited to primal instincts. While we still have our primal instincts, we also have other instincts that have evolved so that we may be able to think more rationally and not react as impulsively. Of course in emergency situations it may be better to rely on the older instincts. But, in day-to-day life, exhibiting rage, for example, as an immediate reaction to our primal instincts, isn't going to get us very far. Our emotional intelligence is evolving.

StephMarie
YoDedicated

Status:
Registered: Oct 19, 2009
Posts: 5439

Wed Aug 11, 2021 12:23 pm
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Xx Peach xX (143363031) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

The survival instinct in us is strong :phew:


You are on point, Peach, yes it is the survival instinct/mechanism. Fear is what instinctively prompts us to protect ourselves and our loved ones. Our ancient ancestors survived because as soon as they heard a suspicious sound in the dark night, they got ready with their spears in case it was a wild beast. I have an interesting story. I used to keep 10 cichlids in a fish tank. One of them was white with red eyes. The pet shop owner told me that white cichlids with red eyes were usually almost blind and that he might be the first to die. What really happened was amazing. That almost-blind fish was the very last to die. Why, because he feared the other cichlids, and thus was more cautious than the others. He kept a safe hiding place for himself in the tank. He knew how to avoid trouble with the other cichlids, he knew when and where to get food safely without fighting, and thus he outlived the others. After all the other cichlids died, he dared to swim freely and did not hide anymore. The pet shop keeper could never be more wrong :haha:


Aww, that's such a cute story about your fish, Stardust. :heart:

Stardust
YoManiac

Status:
Registered: Apr 08, 2015
Posts: 25231

Wed Aug 11, 2021 12:26 pm
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

Fear warns us of danger and the need to protect ourselves, but it is hope that gets us out of bed every day. Fear, without hope, can lead to self-destructive behaviors.


Sorry I missed this post. Hope is not a primal instinct, fear is. Hope is learned, fear is inherent. Therefore, fear plays the foremost and basic role for survival, even before birth.

The topic appeared to be faith and/or hope vs/compared to fear, and did not appear to be limited to primal instincts. While we still have our primal instincts, we also have other instincts that have evolved so that we may be able to think more rationally and not react as impulsively. Of course in emergency situations it may be better to rely on the older instincts. But, in day-to-day life, exhibiting rage, for example, as an immediate reaction to our primal instincts, isn't going to get us very far. Our emotional intelligence is evolving.


I never said that primal instinct was always good, or always reliable. It is not. I was not even defending primal instinct per se. The topic is about survival (OP mentioned about us to stock food and water in his first sentence), and thus I was saying that fear was the foremost and basic instinct or mechanism for survival. Survival is the keyword, not the primal instinct, and fear was the one that motivates action and strategy of any organism to survive. Hope is less of an actor here compared to fear, especially because it is not inherent and not everyone has hope (but everyone has fear). I avoid mentioning about faith, which is different from hope. I'm afraid you misunderstood what I was trying to say.

Stardust
YoManiac

Status:
Registered: Apr 08, 2015
Posts: 25231

Wed Aug 11, 2021 12:38 pm
StephMarie (129969826) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Xx Peach xX (143363031) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

The survival instinct in us is strong :phew:


You are on point, Peach, yes it is the survival instinct/mechanism. Fear is what instinctively prompts us to protect ourselves and our loved ones. Our ancient ancestors survived because as soon as they heard a suspicious sound in the dark night, they got ready with their spears in case it was a wild beast. I have an interesting story. I used to keep 10 cichlids in a fish tank. One of them was white with red eyes. The pet shop owner told me that white cichlids with red eyes were usually almost blind and that he might be the first to die. What really happened was amazing. That almost-blind fish was the very last to die. Why, because he feared the other cichlids, and thus was more cautious than the others. He kept a safe hiding place for himself in the tank. He knew how to avoid trouble with the other cichlids, he knew when and where to get food safely without fighting, and thus he outlived the others. After all the other cichlids died, he dared to swim freely and did not hide anymore. The pet shop keeper could never be more wrong :haha:


Aww, that's such a cute story about your fish, Stardust. :heart:


Thank you, Steph! Yes, I love fishes too, not only cats!!! :heart:

Serenity Now
YoDedicated

Status:
Registered: Dec 10, 2008
Posts: 5770

Wed Aug 11, 2021 12:45 pm
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

Fear warns us of danger and the need to protect ourselves, but it is hope that gets us out of bed every day. Fear, without hope, can lead to self-destructive behaviors.


Sorry I missed this post. Hope is not a primal instinct, fear is. Hope is learned, fear is inherent. Therefore, fear plays the foremost and basic role for survival, even before birth.

The topic appeared to be faith and/or hope vs/compared to fear, and did not appear to be limited to primal instincts. While we still have our primal instincts, we also have other instincts that have evolved so that we may be able to think more rationally and not react as impulsively. Of course in emergency situations it may be better to rely on the older instincts. But, in day-to-day life, exhibiting rage, for example, as an immediate reaction to our primal instincts, isn't going to get us very far. Our emotional intelligence is evolving.


I never said that primal instinct was always good, or always reliable. It is not. I was not even defending primal instinct per se. The topic is about survival (OP mentioned about stocking food and water in his first sentence), and thus I was saying that fear was the foremost and basic instinct or mechanism for survival. Survival is the keyword, not the primal fear, and fear was the one that motivates action and strategy of any organism to survive. Hope is less of an actor here compared to fear, especially because it is not inherent and not everyone has hope (but everyone has fear). I avoid mentioning about faith, which is different from hope. I'm afraid you misunderstood what I was trying to say.

Yes, I saw what the topic was originally about. I also saw later where people were discussing hope, faith, and fear. Your comment that I replied to was about faith and fear, hence my reply.

I did not assume that you might think primal instinct was always reliable. My point was simply that hope, in addition to fear, plays a key role in survival. If a person lost in the wilderness lacks/loses hope, they stop trying to find a way out, even though they have likely not stopped feeling fear. When a person loses/lacks hope, they are more likely to exhibit self-destructive behaviors. I agree that, unfortunately, not everyone possesses hope.

Anyway, I'm out. Have a great day.

Cali
YoRegular

Status:
Registered: Aug 16, 2009
Posts: 417

Wed Aug 11, 2021 12:55 pm
You all need a slice of cheesecake! That'll cover the whole debate about Fear/Hope/Faith!
It restores the fear of not having a sense of deliciousness in your mouth and gives you hope to face the known and faith to believe in a good pastry chef!
So the OP should have said, "Stock up on Cheesecake and Wine" :haha:

Mahalo :hug:

Ashen
YoDedicated

Status:
Registered: Oct 06, 2009
Posts: 6072

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:03 pm
SvG Jericha (6077295) wrote:
DinosaurNerd89 (11877186) wrote:I prefer to live on facts and not faith, but i get the sentiment. :rose:




Image

Facts over fear and faith.



100% Agreed with both of ya!

Image

dianabanana
YoAddict

Status:
Registered: Jul 31, 2009
Posts: 17648

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:07 pm
Cali (114634836) wrote:You all need a slice of cheesecake! That'll cover the whole debate about Fear/Hope/Faith!
It restores the fear of not having a sense of deliciousness in your mouth and gives you hope to face the known and faith to believe in a good pastry chef!
So the OP should have said, "Stock up on Cheesecake and Wine" :haha:

Mahalo :hug:



good one, cali! thanks for the giggle here. i always keep a couple of bottles of wine around however i have to eat sugar free cheesecake cause i'm a diabetic, but if it's the end of the world coming i guess i'll just eat regular sugar full cheesecake. i mean what the hell will it matter if it's the end? LOL

BykaChic
YoBeliever

Status:
Registered: Nov 10, 2009
Posts: 11930

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:15 pm
Waiting for page 243 of this.... :haha:

CountryDude89
YoCrazy

Status:
Registered: Mar 18, 2009
Posts: 22520

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:18 pm
BykaChic (134177197) wrote:Waiting for page 243 of this.... :haha:


Wait all you want, but did you at least bring snacks?!?!

BykaChic
YoBeliever

Status:
Registered: Nov 10, 2009
Posts: 11930

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:25 pm
DinosaurNerd89 (11877186) wrote:
BykaChic (134177197) wrote:Waiting for page 243 of this.... :haha:


Wait all you want, but did you at least bring snacks?!?!


Booze. Lots of booze. :D

ade
YoDedicated

Status:
Registered: Dec 31, 2009
Posts: 6167

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:26 pm
.

CountryDude89
YoCrazy

Status:
Registered: Mar 18, 2009
Posts: 22520

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:27 pm
BykaChic (134177197) wrote:
DinosaurNerd89 (11877186) wrote:
BykaChic (134177197) wrote:Waiting for page 243 of this.... :haha:


Wait all you want, but did you at least bring snacks?!?!


Booze. Lots of booze. :D


If ya share, you'll be a good friend of mine. :haha: :drink:

BykaChic
YoBeliever

Status:
Registered: Nov 10, 2009
Posts: 11930

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:33 pm
DinosaurNerd89 (11877186) wrote:
BykaChic (134177197) wrote:
DinosaurNerd89 (11877186) wrote:
BykaChic (134177197) wrote:Waiting for page 243 of this.... :haha:


Wait all you want, but did you at least bring snacks?!?!


Booze. Lots of booze. :D


If ya share, you'll be a good friend of mine. :haha: :drink:


:haha:

Image

McKinley
YoEnthusiast

Status:
Registered: Dec 08, 2008
Posts: 7702

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:44 pm
The Tutor (126579776) wrote:
Xx Peach xX (143363031) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

The survival instinct in us is strong :phew:

Fascinating topic. The instinctive fear mechanism is truly a powerful motivator for action in all species, homo sapiens included. The ability to effectively respond to a threat is an undeniable truth in a species' survival.

Look out, because here comes my "However". LOL :haha:

However, the cognitive abilities inherent to homo sapiens give them an advantage over other species. We are singular in our ability to set aside fear (if we choose), and operate solely on thought and will. Part of that construct is the ability to operate in faith and hope and act accordingly. Part of being "brave" is doing something contrary to the fear instinct. When the allied forces stormed Normandy, they did so in the face of daunting odds. The smell of fear was everywhere. If it was in control, no one would have set foot on that beach. But these men had hope and faith that they could overcome the threat. And they did.

Fear can be a great motivator or it can cripple an individual. Hence why some people can survive being attacked by a bear and some don't.
And we can't assume what the men, on the beach at Normandy, felt. We weren't there. I can tell you, however, that when you are in the military, you obey orders, even when it's glaringly obvious that following those orders has a potential of ending in your demise. How do I know this? I'm married to a Vietnam veteran. So, let's not assume facts that are not in evidence, shall we?

:thumbsup:

Stardust
YoManiac

Status:
Registered: Apr 08, 2015
Posts: 25231

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:44 pm
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:
Serenity Now (6134566) wrote:
Stardust (186190305) wrote:It is fear, not faith, that had helped homo sapiens to survive. Self preservation of any organism originated from fear.

Fear warns us of danger and the need to protect ourselves, but it is hope that gets us out of bed every day. Fear, without hope, can lead to self-destructive behaviors.


Sorry I missed this post. Hope is not a primal instinct, fear is. Hope is learned, fear is inherent. Therefore, fear plays the foremost and basic role for survival, even before birth.

The topic appeared to be faith and/or hope vs/compared to fear, and did not appear to be limited to primal instincts. While we still have our primal instincts, we also have other instincts that have evolved so that we may be able to think more rationally and not react as impulsively. Of course in emergency situations it may be better to rely on the older instincts. But, in day-to-day life, exhibiting rage, for example, as an immediate reaction to our primal instincts, isn't going to get us very far. Our emotional intelligence is evolving.


I never said that primal instinct was always good, or always reliable. It is not. I was not even defending primal instinct per se. The topic is about survival (OP mentioned about stocking food and water in his first sentence), and thus I was saying that fear was the foremost and basic instinct or mechanism for survival. Survival is the keyword, not the primal fear, and fear was the one that motivates action and strategy of any organism to survive. Hope is less of an actor here compared to fear, especially because it is not inherent and not everyone has hope (but everyone has fear). I avoid mentioning about faith, which is different from hope. I'm afraid you misunderstood what I was trying to say.

Yes, I saw what the topic was originally about. I also saw later where people were discussing hope, faith, and fear. Your comment that I replied to was about faith and fear, hence my reply.

I did not assume that you might think primal instinct was always reliable. My point was simply that hope, in addition to fear, plays a key role in survival. If a person lost in the wilderness lacks/loses hope, they stop trying to find a way out, even though they have likely not stopped feeling fear. When a person loses/lacks hope, they are more likely to exhibit self-destructive behaviors. I agree that, unfortunately, not everyone possesses hope.

Anyway, I'm out. Have a great day.


Yes, I agree that hope can help survival too, I already said that in my reply to Rod. I was just saying it was a lesser force compared to fear.

And I must add, that hope can be destructive too. When we hope for something that is false, that same hope can destroy us. Hope can be a delusional thing, and can harm us greatly because it is making us less cautious, less prepared, less feet on the ground, and less objective. It is especially harmful in Medicines as it may cost our lives if we refuse treatment due to false hope. Hope can be just wishful thinking, we are deceiving ourselves and refusing to see facts.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate it and enjoyed the discussion.

Erwyle
YoAddict

Status:
Registered: Oct 05, 2016
Posts: 19580

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:44 pm
Xx Peach xX (143363031) wrote:OP really posted this broad statement and left us.

Does he mean the new COVID variants or the wildfires? Who knows. We just know he loves us.


I thought he meant the fantasy going around now that there's a second Civil War coming in America. But then, that wouldn't be love of all would it, so maybe I'm wrong...
:silly:

McKinley
YoEnthusiast

Status:
Registered: Dec 08, 2008
Posts: 7702

Wed Aug 11, 2021 1:54 pm
Pinkylola (235554) wrote:We already got a good supply of water/ food and medication. :thumbsup:



Same here...and bug-out bags complete with...well, I won't go into all that, but suffice it to say that we would survive and thrive.

CountryDude89
YoCrazy

Status:
Registered: Mar 18, 2009
Posts: 22520

Wed Aug 11, 2021 2:05 pm
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:
Xx Peach xX (143363031) wrote:OP really posted this broad statement and left us.

Does he mean the new COVID variants or the wildfires? Who knows. We just know he loves us.


I thought he meant the fantasy going around now that there's a second Civil War coming in America. But then, that wouldn't be love of all would it, so maybe I'm wrong...
:silly:


Ironically, the confederate flag humping nerds that fantasize about another civil war, will be the first ones fleeing in panic at the start of a real war.

dianabanana
YoAddict

Status:
Registered: Jul 31, 2009
Posts: 17648

Wed Aug 11, 2021 2:17 pm
Erwyle (187240896) wrote:
Xx Peach xX (143363031) wrote:OP really posted this broad statement and left us.

Does he mean the new COVID variants or the wildfires? Who knows. We just know he loves us.


I thought he meant the fantasy going around now that there's a second Civil War coming in America. But then, that wouldn't be love of all would it, so maybe I'm wrong...
:silly:



since this thread is already all over the place, i can see a war possibly coming to the good ole usa. maybe not civil although i think it may be a more anarchy type of war......citizens against each other, citizens against the government , poorer americans against richer ones, democrats and republicans against each other. i've lived in usa 71 yrs now and i;ve never seen our country like it is now. america and americans will always survive however what type of america will it be? it's nothing at all like i grew up in. to some that's good and to others it's bad. i'm a moderate so i'm somewhere inbetween. lol. ya gotta remember mad max took place in 2021. lol.
478
479
479
480
482
482
483
483
486
489
499
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500
500