Several different conversations today led to my decision to start this thread. IDK if anyone will use it but if you'd like to make an apology to anyone, for anything you feel they're owed an apology for - please feel free to get it off your chest here

You don't have to name names if you don't feel up to it, but hopefully you'll say enough to let the person who is owed the apology know it's for them.

I'll go first:

I would like to apologise to Purply Angelz for being an a-hole the other day. She's a very kind, funny, upbeat lady who loves this game a lot and I shouldn't have taken her to task over nonsense.

Purply, I'm so sorry - you didn't deserve it and I should have kept my big trap shut.....please forgive me

I stand behind my words.
I hope this person got to read what I said.
Editing before this thread gets derailed.

No, I can't think of one person I've wronged on these forums, so I can't really throw out a name. But, I like the idea of this Miss T and good luck with it...

I am here before the lock..


I am kidding!


Good luck to all...

I'd lIke to apologize for all things I wrote and erased over the years.

It was therapeutic and I meant every word of it, even though no one ever read it.

Pinkylola (235554) wrote:I stand behind my words.
I hope this person got to read what I said.
Editing before this thread gets derailed.

Well, that's too bad Pinky. I think Stardust would have liked to read your apology. Maybe you'll change your mind?

Miss TiFied (8432514) wrote:Several different conversations today led to my decision to start this thread. IDK if anyone will use it but if you'd like to make an apology to anyone, for anything you feel they're owed an apology for - please feel free to get it off your chest here

You don't have to name names if you don't feel up to it, but hopefully you'll say enough to let the person who is owed the apology

I'll go first:

I would like to apologise to Purply Angelz for being an a-hole the other day. She's a very kind, funny, upbeat lady who loves this game a lot and I shouldn't have taken her to task over nonsense.

Purply, I'm so sorry - you didn't deserve it and I should have kept my big trap shut.....please forgive me

Oh Miss T........I understood where you were coming from the other day.....no apologies, we all have our opinions & days and I know I was out of line, and did apologize to all in that thread. Learned my lesson, and will always have respect to everyone else who shares our luv of YO! Tysm and LUV this thread! I am sorry to everyone I offended in that thread who didn't see my apology there! Won't happen again!

Miss TiFied (8432514) wrote:Several different conversations today led to my decision to start this thread. IDK if anyone will use it but if you'd like to make an apology to anyone, for anything you feel they're owed an apology for - please feel free to get it off your chest here

You don't have to name names if you don't feel up to it, but hopefully you'll say enough to let the person who is owed the apology

I'll go first:

I would like to apologise to Purply Angelz for being an a-hole the other day. She's a very kind, funny, upbeat lady who loves this game a lot and I shouldn't have taken her to task over nonsense.

Purply, I'm so sorry - you didn't deserve it and I should have kept my big trap shut.....please forgive me

aw bless ya Miss Ti... Purply sure is all the above and actually she is the first friend from the Forum and in game that i have accepted as a RL friend on FB . in the old days of Yoville a few people added each other to help with tasks etc. many stopped using FB altogether as well as not playing the game anymore so i deleted them. there are 3 all from the US who i chatted to a lot back then and even though all 3 stopped playing YV i still chat to them on FB so they were the only remaining ones. from the Forum/Game now the only 2 i have on FB are Purply and Bizmo. i don't think there is anyone i need to apologise to but if i have accidently upset or offended someone please speak up

The last few minutes I've been thinking about how I'd respond here after everything that has happened in the last few months and how immoral it would be to ignore this thread like it doesn't exist. I've exchanged a couple of PMs with Miss T who i wanna thank for being unapologetically brutally honest and transparent with me, there was no sugarcoating and she said it exactly like it is. This is a sensitive topic and involves a lot of very kind people but there's no room for pride or half-apologies, when you're wrong you're wrong, and saying I was only wrong is an understatement as to what happened.

I've hurt and caused agony to a lot of people in a particular thread and in various events which followed as reactions started to grow, I was not on my best behavior that day and should have known better than to act like a complete irresponsible assshole. I am constantly growing and trying to learn from my mistakes and yet nothing justifies my rudeness and immoral behavior towards everyone involved. All I can say is I am deeply sorry for being so inconsiderate and hurtful, I know better now and I'm more aware of how many battles each one of you is facing and how much damage vile acts like mine can leave in someone's life. I hope there's enough time to try to mend things and this is my problem now, because i strongly believe in "What goes around comes around" and being stubborn thinking i'm right only means this will catch up with me soon when least expected and i definitely don't want to meet that one version of me which showed up in that thread at any point in my life.

To all the people I've hurt, it would have been more appropriate to name you but because of the Forums rules, I can't. I have also learned that around the time it all happened some of you were dealing with major health concerns in your real life and i'm so sorry about that too. By no means saying "Sorry" means I paid my dues and life is good again, I need to look back for a very long time before i can start looking forward again, and i hope you can forgive me at some point in the future, this is barely the start of a realistic critical approach and learning that too much pride is a disastrous thing. There's so much life and emotions behind the Avatar, this is something I need to constantly remind myself of before reacting in the future. I hope you overcome all your struggles, big and small, and win all your battles even if it meant waking up to face another day, so many of you I admire and can learn plenty of things from on how to cope and be strong. I'm sorry that this was a long read but everything said has been on my mind since then and i'm glad someone created this opportunity for me to say these things.

You all take care, and have an outstanding weekend.

Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:The last few minutes I've been thinking about how I'd respond here after everything that has happened in the last few months and how immoral it would be to ignore this thread like it doesn't exist. I've exchanged a couple of PMs with Miss T who i wanna thank for being unapologetically brutally honest and transparent with me, there was no sugarcoating and she said it exactly like it is. This is a sensitive topic and involves a lot of very kind people but there's no room for pride or half-apologies, when you're wrong you're wrong, and saying I was only wrong is an understatement as to what happened.

I've hurt and caused agony to a lot of people in a particular thread and in various events which followed as reactions started to grow, I was not on my best behavior that day and should have known better than to act like a complete irresponsible assshole. I am constantly growing and trying to learn from my mistakes and yet nothing justifies my rudeness and immoral behavior towards everyone involved. All I can say is I am deeply sorry for being so inconsiderate and hurtful, I know better now and I'm more aware of how many battles each one of you is facing and how much damage vile acts like mine can leave in someone's life. I hope there's enough time to try to mend things and this is my problem now, because i strongly believe in "What goes around comes around" and being stubborn thinking i'm right only means this will catch up with me soon when least expected and i definitely don't want to meet that one version of me which showed up in that thread at any point in my life.

To all the people I've hurt, it would have been more appropriate to name you but because of the Forums rules, I can't. I have also learned that around the time it all happened some of you were dealing with major health concerns in your real life and i'm so sorry about that too. By no means saying "Sorry" means I paid my dues and life is good again, I need to look back for a very long time before i can start looking forward again, and i hope you can forgive me at some point in the future, this is barely the start of a realistic critical approach and learning that too much pride is a disastrous thing. There's so much life and emotions behind the Avatar, this is something I need to constantly remind myself of before reacting in the future. I hope you overcome all your struggles, big and small, and win all your battles even if it meant waking up to face another day, so many of you I admire and can learn plenty of things from on how to cope and be strong. I'm sorry that this was a long read but everything said has been on my mind since then and i'm glad someone created this opportunity for me to say these things.

You all take care, and have an outstanding weekend.

PurPlyAnjelZ XXX (152320506) wrote:

Miss TiFied (8432514) wrote:Several different conversations today led to my decision to start this thread. IDK if anyone will use it but if you'd like to make an apology to anyone, for anything you feel they're owed an apology for - please feel free to get it off your chest here

You don't have to name names if you don't feel up to it, but hopefully you'll say enough to let the person who is owed the apology

I'll go first:

I would like to apologise to Purply Angelz for being an a-hole the other day. She's a very kind, funny, upbeat lady who loves this game a lot and I shouldn't have taken her to task over nonsense.

Purply, I'm so sorry - you didn't deserve it and I should have kept my big trap shut.....please forgive me

Oh Miss T........I understood where you were coming from the other day.....no apologies, we all have our opinions & days and I know I was out of line, and did apologize to all in that thread. Learned my lesson, and will always have respect to everyone else who shares our luv of YO! Tysm and LUV this thread! I am sorry to everyone I offended in that thread who didn't see my apology there! Won't happen again!

Thank you Purply - I'm really glad we're all good

Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:The last few minutes I've been thinking about how I'd respond here after everything that has happened in the last few months and how immoral it would be to ignore this thread like it doesn't exist. I've exchanged a couple of PMs with Miss T who i wanna thank for being unapologetically brutally honest and transparent with me, there was no sugarcoating and she said it exactly like it is. This is a sensitive topic and involves a lot of very kind people but there's no room for pride or half-apologies, when you're wrong you're wrong, and saying I was only wrong is an understatement as to what happened.

I've hurt and caused agony to a lot of people in a particular thread and in various events which followed as reactions started to grow, I was not on my best behavior that day and should have known better than to act like a complete irresponsible assshole. I am constantly growing and trying to learn from my mistakes and yet nothing justifies my rudeness and immoral behavior towards everyone involved. All I can say is I am deeply sorry for being so inconsiderate and hurtful, I know better now and I'm more aware of how many battles each one of you is facing and how much damage vile acts like mine can leave in someone's life. I hope there's enough time to try to mend things and this is my problem now, because i strongly believe in "What goes around comes around" and being stubborn thinking i'm right only means this will catch up with me soon when least expected and i definitely don't want to meet that one version of me which showed up in that thread at any point in my life.

To all the people I've hurt, it would have been more appropriate to name you but because of the Forums rules, I can't. I have also learned that around the time it all happened some of you were dealing with major health concerns in your real life and i'm so sorry about that too. By no means saying "Sorry" means I paid my dues and life is good again, I need to look back for a very long time before i can start looking forward again, and i hope you can forgive me at some point in the future, this is barely the start of a realistic critical approach and learning that too much pride is a disastrous thing. There's so much life and emotions behind the Avatar, this is something I need to constantly remind myself of before reacting in the future. I hope you overcome all your struggles, big and small, and win all your battles even if it meant waking up to face another day, so many of you I admire and can learn plenty of things from on how to cope and be strong. I'm sorry that this was a long read but everything said has been on my mind since then and i'm glad someone created this opportunity for me to say these things.

You all take care, and have an outstanding weekend.

Nick! You don't know how many times I've wanted to agree with your posts and say something nice. I have been stubbornly holding a grudge that I am so happy to let go of! Thanks for your kind words!

Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:

Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:The last few minutes I've been thinking about how I'd respond here after everything that has happened in the last few months and how immoral it would be to ignore this thread like it doesn't exist. I've exchanged a couple of PMs with Miss T who i wanna thank for being unapologetically brutally honest and transparent with me, there was no sugarcoating and she said it exactly like it is. This is a sensitive topic and involves a lot of very kind people but there's no room for pride or half-apologies, when you're wrong you're wrong, and saying I was only wrong is an understatement as to what happened.

I've hurt and caused agony to a lot of people in a particular thread and in various events which followed as reactions started to grow, I was not on my best behavior that day and should have known better than to act like a complete irresponsible assshole. I am constantly growing and trying to learn from my mistakes and yet nothing justifies my rudeness and immoral behavior towards everyone involved. All I can say is I am deeply sorry for being so inconsiderate and hurtful, I know better now and I'm more aware of how many battles each one of you is facing and how much damage vile acts like mine can leave in someone's life. I hope there's enough time to try to mend things and this is my problem now, because i strongly believe in "What goes around comes around" and being stubborn thinking i'm right only means this will catch up with me soon when least expected and i definitely don't want to meet that one version of me which showed up in that thread at any point in my life.

To all the people I've hurt, it would have been more appropriate to name you but because of the Forums rules, I can't. I have also learned that around the time it all happened some of you were dealing with major health concerns in your real life and i'm so sorry about that too. By no means saying "Sorry" means I paid my dues and life is good again, I need to look back for a very long time before i can start looking forward again, and i hope you can forgive me at some point in the future, this is barely the start of a realistic critical approach and learning that too much pride is a disastrous thing. There's so much life and emotions behind the Avatar, this is something I need to constantly remind myself of before reacting in the future. I hope you overcome all your struggles, big and small, and win all your battles even if it meant waking up to face another day, so many of you I admire and can learn plenty of things from on how to cope and be strong. I'm sorry that this was a long read but everything said has been on my mind since then and i'm glad someone created this opportunity for me to say these things.

You all take care, and have an outstanding weekend.

Nick! You don't know how many times I've wanted to agree with your posts and say something nice. I have been stubbornly holding a grudge that I am so happy to let go of! Thanks for your kind words!

Foolish pride huh Robyn? It gets the better of us sometimes, but fortunately not always

Miss TiFied (8432514) wrote:

Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:

Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:The last few minutes I've been thinking about how I'd respond here after everything that has happened in the last few months and how immoral it would be to ignore this thread like it doesn't exist. I've exchanged a couple of PMs with Miss T who i wanna thank for being unapologetically brutally honest and transparent with me, there was no sugarcoating and she said it exactly like it is. This is a sensitive topic and involves a lot of very kind people but there's no room for pride or half-apologies, when you're wrong you're wrong, and saying I was only wrong is an understatement as to what happened.

I've hurt and caused agony to a lot of people in a particular thread and in various events which followed as reactions started to grow, I was not on my best behavior that day and should have known better than to act like a complete irresponsible assshole. I am constantly growing and trying to learn from my mistakes and yet nothing justifies my rudeness and immoral behavior towards everyone involved. All I can say is I am deeply sorry for being so inconsiderate and hurtful, I know better now and I'm more aware of how many battles each one of you is facing and how much damage vile acts like mine can leave in someone's life. I hope there's enough time to try to mend things and this is my problem now, because i strongly believe in "What goes around comes around" and being stubborn thinking i'm right only means this will catch up with me soon when least expected and i definitely don't want to meet that one version of me which showed up in that thread at any point in my life.

To all the people I've hurt, it would have been more appropriate to name you but because of the Forums rules, I can't. I have also learned that around the time it all happened some of you were dealing with major health concerns in your real life and i'm so sorry about that too. By no means saying "Sorry" means I paid my dues and life is good again, I need to look back for a very long time before i can start looking forward again, and i hope you can forgive me at some point in the future, this is barely the start of a realistic critical approach and learning that too much pride is a disastrous thing. There's so much life and emotions behind the Avatar, this is something I need to constantly remind myself of before reacting in the future. I hope you overcome all your struggles, big and small, and win all your battles even if it meant waking up to face another day, so many of you I admire and can learn plenty of things from on how to cope and be strong. I'm sorry that this was a long read but everything said has been on my mind since then and i'm glad someone created this opportunity for me to say these things.

You all take care, and have an outstanding weekend.

Nick! You don't know how many times I've wanted to agree with your posts and say something nice. I have been stubbornly holding a grudge that I am so happy to let go of! Thanks for your kind words!

Foolish pride huh Robyn? It gets the better of us sometimes, but fortunately not always

It feels so much better letting go, and moving on. Thanks so much for starting this thread MissT

@Nick. Thank you. All was already forgiven, but can never be forgotten. I am always open to second chances, though you and I may be on our third lol. I will as of now consider the past the past and let's see what the future holds k?

Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:

Miss TiFied (8432514) wrote:

Robyn VIP (8132649) wrote:

Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:The last few minutes I've been thinking about how I'd respond here after everything that has happened in the last few months and how immoral it would be to ignore this thread like it doesn't exist. I've exchanged a couple of PMs with Miss T who i wanna thank for being unapologetically brutally honest and transparent with me, there was no sugarcoating and she said it exactly like it is. This is a sensitive topic and involves a lot of very kind people but there's no room for pride or half-apologies, when you're wrong you're wrong, and saying I was only wrong is an understatement as to what happened.

I've hurt and caused agony to a lot of people in a particular thread and in various events which followed as reactions started to grow, I was not on my best behavior that day and should have known better than to act like a complete irresponsible assshole. I am constantly growing and trying to learn from my mistakes and yet nothing justifies my rudeness and immoral behavior towards everyone involved. All I can say is I am deeply sorry for being so inconsiderate and hurtful, I know better now and I'm more aware of how many battles each one of you is facing and how much damage vile acts like mine can leave in someone's life. I hope there's enough time to try to mend things and this is my problem now, because i strongly believe in "What goes around comes around" and being stubborn thinking i'm right only means this will catch up with me soon when least expected and i definitely don't want to meet that one version of me which showed up in that thread at any point in my life.

To all the people I've hurt, it would have been more appropriate to name you but because of the Forums rules, I can't. I have also learned that around the time it all happened some of you were dealing with major health concerns in your real life and i'm so sorry about that too. By no means saying "Sorry" means I paid my dues and life is good again, I need to look back for a very long time before i can start looking forward again, and i hope you can forgive me at some point in the future, this is barely the start of a realistic critical approach and learning that too much pride is a disastrous thing. There's so much life and emotions behind the Avatar, this is something I need to constantly remind myself of before reacting in the future. I hope you overcome all your struggles, big and small, and win all your battles even if it meant waking up to face another day, so many of you I admire and can learn plenty of things from on how to cope and be strong. I'm sorry that this was a long read but everything said has been on my mind since then and i'm glad someone created this opportunity for me to say these things.

You all take care, and have an outstanding weekend.

Nick! You don't know how many times I've wanted to agree with your posts and say something nice. I have been stubbornly holding a grudge that I am so happy to let go of! Thanks for your kind words!

Foolish pride huh Robyn? It gets the better of us sometimes, but fortunately not always

It feels so much better letting go, and moving on. Thanks so much for starting this thread MissT

My darling sister, who we lost in 1990, was funny, beautiful and wise. One of the things she used to tell this stubborn as hell idiot was:

"Arguments are not supposed to go on forever"

and those words have been coming back to me a lot lately. She was right.....they're not

MsPhantom (129173078) wrote:I had been debating with myself back and forth over whether to post on this thread or not and what I could cover in my post. I understand that I can be very hostile and negative on this forum and that my negativity and rudeness has impacted a few individuals who did not do anything to deserve it. I do not feel comfortable confronting them publicly so I'll do it privately instead.

In the summertime, I got on a forumer's bad side over some irrelevant nonsense and this person made it their obligation to consistently be so horrible to me with actions that still continue to this day. The other individual would deny this or spin the situation around on me but what I've said is true. Anyway, the experience effected me deeply and made me very hostile, cynical, and negative towards others here on this forum. I felt very hated and unwelcomed and I did something that I should not have done. I took the horrible treatment by another and treated people who were not even involved in the situation rudely. Those people did not deserve that and I am so ashamed to have taken my anger out on them. I am so completely sorry to those people for my behavior.

Anyway, I have my settings set to receive private messages. If you have ever been involved in a conflict with me or experienced hostility in any way, send me a private message so that we can talk through things and work things out. I dislike tension and hostility with anyone and would love to get rid of any existing

This is truly a beautiful thread and I thank Miss T for starting it. The internet is such an odd thing...so much can be read or misconstrued in just a few typed words. No body language to offset a joke. No familiarity to remind us that we all have 'off' days or have things that 'trigger' us.

I hope I have not unintentionally offended anyone here over the last few years. We all are here, day after day, week after week, year after year because we have not only found joy in this game but a 'family' we care about.

Thank you, Miss T, for reminding me what Yo is truly about.

MsPhantom (129173078) wrote:I had been debating with myself back and forth over whether to post on this thread or not and what I could cover in my post. I understand that I can be very hostile and negative on this forum and that my negativity and rudeness has impacted a few individuals who did not do anything to deserve it. I do not feel comfortable confronting them publicly so I'll do it privately instead.

In the summertime, I got on a forumer's bad side over some irrelevant nonsense and this person made it their obligation to consistently be so horrible to me with actions that still continue to this day. The other individual would deny this or spin the situation around on me but what I've said is true. Anyway, the experience effected me deeply and made me very hostile, cynical, and negative towards others here on this forum. I felt very hated and unwelcomed and I did something that I should not have done. I took the horrible treatment by another and treated people who were not even involved in the situation rudely. Those people did not deserve that and I am so ashamed to have taken my anger out on them. I am so completely sorry to those people for my behavior.

Anyway, I have my settings set to receive private messages. If you have ever been involved in a conflict with me or experienced hostility in any way, send me a private message so that we can talk through things and work things out. I dislike tension and hostility with anyone and would love to get rid of any existing

Well that's awesome imo MsPhantom. And I never thought of it from that perspective. From my viewpoint, I'm fine, but maybe there are people who disagree with my assessment of myself. I'd be happy to try to right any wrong if I only knew what it was. I too would appreciate a pm or really any method of opening a dialogue and resolving issues. Life's too short for silly squabbles which are usually just a result of misunderstanding anyway.

Back to you, I am good with you, and I think you know that. I hope you get some resolution too. You're a great woman imo...