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INSOMNIA (184182673) wrote:You only Thanatophobic if it stops you from living.
Its a common condition to think yourself into panic attacks on the subject But if your fear of dying stops you from leaving the house then its a problem. The real fear is actually related to lose of control Because something is inevitably going to happen that you cannot control cannot prepare for and cannot escape
"All men die But not all men live"
Richy (3429282) wrote:Ah, death. We all have to get there at some point. I don't know if I'd say I'm afraid of death, but right now I'm definitely not ready for it. There's still so much I want to do and feel like I have to do. My family for sure isn't ready for my death either. The thing I fear most is going in a way that's not peaceful.
As far what I believe happens after death, I can't say that I do know. I grew up Catholic and I am very familiar with what my family and the church believe. I'm still grappling with what I believe and don't believe. I don't know what I think to be true when it comes to life after death. I've searched for answers with an open mind, but it's very difficult to come to a conclusion that I can accept myself. That being said, I still don't think I fear death, I just know that I'm not ready for it at 20 years old.
Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:My Grandpa on his last days wasn't sick or sad or had any major health condition but he used to tell me that he can't wait to gracefully leave without being hospitalized or have his life medically prolonged. Days went by then one day they couldn't wake him up in the morning, he died in his sleep. He always told me he had a good life and now he can't wait to rest, he was so accepting of death and I think that's why he lived a great life. Till his last days, he participated in the lottery regularly and really wanted to win big lol, not so he could take the money for himself but to give it to us to live a better life. My Grandma who outlived him till today tells me that her wish is to die the same way.
I think as we age we become more and more familiar with the idea of death being inevitable. It's ok to think about death but you shouldn't think much about dying because it can create a big wall between wanting to achieve and living a prisoner of a thought that you can change nothing about. Death has been happening since the beginning of life, it will continue to happen regardless if you approve it, like it or want it to happen so you might as well make peace with it. I like it when people say "Rest In Peace" because to me that's what death essentially is, resting in peace, and I'm a huge pro-life person, I love living and i have so much i want to achieve, to me my greatest fear is dying without achieving anything of any worth, not death itself.
yuan (186188531) wrote:Nick Blade (187030201) wrote:My Grandpa on his last days wasn't sick or sad or had any major health condition but he used to tell me that he can't wait to gracefully leave without being hospitalized or have his life medically prolonged. Days went by then one day they couldn't wake him up in the morning, he died in his sleep. He always told me he had a good life and now he can't wait to rest, he was so accepting of death and I think that's why he lived a great life. Till his last days, he participated in the lottery regularly and really wanted to win big lol, not so he could take the money for himself but to give it to us to live a better life. My Grandma who outlived him till today tells me that her wish is to die the same way.
I think as we age we become more and more familiar with the idea of death being inevitable. It's ok to think about death but you shouldn't think much about dying because it can create a big wall between wanting to achieve and living a prisoner of a thought that you can change nothing about. Death has been happening since the beginning of life, it will continue to happen regardless if you approve it, like it or want it to happen so you might as well make peace with it. I like it when people say "Rest In Peace" because to me that's what death essentially is, resting in peace, and I'm a huge pro-life person, I love living and i have so much i want to achieve, to me my greatest fear is dying without achieving anything of any worth, not death itself.
Wow your grandpa sounds awesomemy grandma also died in her sleep... what surprised me when she died was, my dad started clapping while crying. and then said "She graduated from life now. Congratulations Nanay" and then seconds later we were all clapping.
Mechanic (187755790) wrote:I'm not scared of death, I'm getting up in age, where it could be any day now. What I do, worry about though, is the people I will leave behind when I go. For years, I've been a dad figure to amazing women, I'll proudly claim her as one of my own kids and I have claimed her as one of own since she was a teen (she's an adult now); I'm the one she runs to for advice, I'm the one she always comes to when something goes wrong, and I don't even want to think about how lost she will be when I'm gone. That is the part, that scares me, is leaving people behind when I go. I do, however, hope that when it is, my time to go it's quick and painless.