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JustJo
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Sun Jun 29, 2025 7:53 pm
they couldnt operate on mom as both sides of her neck are now blocked and the risk is too high.
her stomach hurts terribly when she tries to eat-she doesnt even ever eat much ,we use to tease her that she eats like a bird,
the name for the frozen stomach medically is Mesenteric ischemia which makes it so difficult for her. She cannot use or see from the left eye and will not regain mobility in the left arm but her leg was the only thing not hit by 2 strokes
they can only get a bp from her left arm as the right artery is the worser blocked.

she is in congestive heart failure and we do not know how long we have her so all my time is spent with her
I have seen my mom go from being happy go lucky,youthful looking,highly independent to such a fragile state
I didnt think my heart could be broken as much as it has nor did I know I had a gazillion more tears to shed.
She is my best friend a loving kind woman who this shouldnt have happened to but it did and living like this can and does take its toll
dyed my hair 3 weeks ago and now its all white-I always did have those white hairs for years but not as many as I see when I look in the
mirror and I wish the bags under my eyes were filled with money ha!

we are going day by day-hug your mom,dad sister brother and children a little more tighter than you use to as the old saying of no one knows what each day brings is so true
Thank you all for your kind thoughts and visiting me..I am just too tired to do much myself and am holding on by a thread and want mom to get better and things are not looking well right now.

LilyDarling
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Sun Jun 29, 2025 7:56 pm
I'm so sorry. But you don't have to do anything except get through each minute. There is no right and wrong way to feel or be. There is only living. I hope peace and love are with you every minute as well. :heart: :heart: :heart:

Stella
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Sun Jun 29, 2025 8:18 pm
I am so sorry, I know this is not the outcome you were hoping for. I hope you are able to feel love, joy and peace in each day. :heart:

Julie
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Sun Jun 29, 2025 8:19 pm
Love and prayers sent to you :heart:

Greg
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Sun Jun 29, 2025 11:25 pm
Jo, I am so sorry. Sending prayers for your mom and you.

Tiff
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 12:18 am
I'm so sorry Just Jo! Your Mom and you all will be in my prayers. :hug: :heart:

miss Soona
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 12:31 am
so sorry dear jo,sending prayers for you,just hold her hand and think of your health too,god bless you all,hug for your doughter :hug: :hug:

Kate
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 7:44 am
I'm so so sorry Jo.
All my love and prayers for you both :heart:

Sandra YOC
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 12:49 pm
Watching a parent in the hospital is such a hard thing to go through. Praying for her and for you. :heartbroken: :heartbroken:

Ceilidh
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 6:13 pm
hugs to you jo, i'm so sorry to read this. thinking of you and your family :heartbroken:

DarDar
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 6:32 pm
Oh Jo I am so sorry I can only imagine how incredibly difficult this must be. I'm thinking of you and your family and am sending healing thoughts and prayers. Big hugs... :heart:

Sara YoVirgo
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 6:33 pm
praying for your Mom
This breaks my heart reading this.

JustJo
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 6:36 pm
:hug: :heart:

seas OGX
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 7:21 pm
I'm sorry Jo. Sending you, your mom and your family love and prayers :heart:

vee
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 8:21 pm
So sorry to hear this!!! Praying for you and your family. ~hugs~

ChocoFloat
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Mon Jun 30, 2025 8:52 pm
praying for you and your fam, dear. Stay strong! :hug:

dianabanana
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Wed Jul 02, 2025 9:03 pm
my heart is breaking for you miss jo. even as a stroke survivor myself i am at a loss for words. you and your family are in my bedtime prayers every night. may god hold you in the palm of his hand with his tenderness, mercy, love and grace. i love you my yo friend

BEANS
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Thu Jul 03, 2025 9:22 am
sending love, hugs, and prayers ur way my dear gf
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