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Go to edit mode, click the arrow you wanted to be connected with other home/avenue then a tab should be appearing having the homes available to be connected then pick one, then save.
Go to edit mode, click the arrow you wanted to be connected with other home/avenue then a tab should be appearing having the homes available to be connected then pick one, then save.