Cobalt
#1 YoFiend
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Registered: Oct 04, 2009
Posts: 56159
Thu Dec 05, 2019 3:00 pm
I know 2 people who had it and one is happy with it and one is not. I think both results were a disconnect with expectations. The question that MUST be answered HONESTLY before going through with it is "Why am I doing this, REALLY?" If you don't know that answer, don't do it. Ever. And if the truthful answer is anything besides "I want this change", then you are fooling yourself about doing it.
The people who love you will love you with or without it.
You will feel no better or worse about your appearance after getting it done.
It will not change your confidence or lack of it.
New people who meet you and like your "shell" without liking your "core", aren't worth it anyway.
Change for the sake of change is never right.
But if you truly just want the change, then it is fine. But be triple certain about that motivation or you will have a new nose, an empty wallet, and you'll still be you.